I really recommend everyone to read this, It's about the masculine and feminine energy. Maybe I got it wrong but after reading it I thought it makes complete sense why "feminine" hot girls often like bad boys etc. Do you agree?
that would also explain why nice guys (often having the feminine energy traits) often end up in the friend zone of preppy girls - or in a relationship with tomboys...
Initially when I read that article I found it to be somewhat offensive and a total crock. However, upon reading further, I grew to realize that it may be true and simply doesn't apply to me because I am neither a bad boy/jerk/player/alpha male type, and nor do I go for "feminine women." I go more for tomboy types than I do "girly girls" and I find it to be not only a turnoff when she's extremely "feminine" but also just plain stressful to deal with.
So she may be onto something there. I just can't really comment on the matter because I exist outside of the population discussed in the article, and the girls I go for do also.
I personally think it is because they are very good in talking sweet with girls.Girls love to hear compliments so this is the ticket for bad boys to trick them into their trap! Most bad boys are protective as well so girls feel they are safe to be with them.Another bonus is their look;)
They know how to dress well compare with the good boys.
Women don't like those guys because they are jerks & players, they like them because they are attractive and charismatic. They put up with the bad behavior because the guys are so desireable. As for true "bad boys" ... I've usually only seen bad girls with these guys, the kind that also like to do/sell drugs, commit crime, etc.
As far as guys who just get with a lot of women -- if they weren't attractive, it wouldn't happen.