Is she too short for me?

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I met a girl online and never asked about her height. She is really pretty and has nice body curves(: almost a perfect ten! but the only problem is she is 4'11 and I am 6'4, 6'5 with shoes. I talked to her close to two month before I met her we get really along and I like her. I never asked her about her height. So when we met 5 days ago she was very short -.- when I stand next to her I look like her dad lol, It's kinda awkward :D. She doesn't seem to complain about and she also said thatshe like tall guys. I'm supposed to meet her on Saturday (tomorrow) I don't know want to be with her if she going to look so short.

Should I forget about her or should I tell her to get some huge heels so it doesn't look awkward?

Short girls: how would you feel if a guy told you to get 'huge heels' so we don't look awkward

hLovebughelp123 · Accepted Answer

To be honest, I understand where you are coming from and the height difference is a little drastic. If I were you, I probably would be a little insecure about it. I was walking with my guy friend who is shorter than me and even I felt a little insecure about that. But, if she makes you happy and she's not bothered by it and it wouldn't be a burden for you guys personally, then it shouldn't matter what the anyone else thinks.

The heel comment would get me annoyed though, especially since she is not bothered it. I would slowly bring up the topic though and see how you both really feel about it and maybe create small insulting ways to get around it. Don't just come out of nowhere and suggest heels though. Ask her how she feels, tell her your opinion and so on and so on.

Like I said before, if she makes you happy don't worry about what anyone else thinks.

tohrment · Accepted Answer

If it honestly makes you super uncomfortable, I don't think it makes you shallow to end things. Attraction is important in a relationship.

But if she is amazing in every other aspect and isn't bothered by the height difference, doesn't that count for something? Everyone is entitled to their preferences, but if you hang onto it too tightly then you might let something great slip away.

I wouldn't suggest telling her to wear heels. Most likely that she's rather self conscious about being short. Maybe just ask her what she thinks about the height difference and if it bothers her at all. Go from there. I think telling her to wear heels so she doesn't look weird MIGHT upset her, though. lol

beerY33 · Accepted Answer

No, she isn't "too short" for you.

No, you shouldn't forget about her because of her height, unless there are other reasons why you're just not that into her.

No, you shouldn't tell her to wear huge heels. Any girl with half a brain (imo) should not be okay with a guy telling them what to wear, even in this context.

WoIIie · Accepted Answer

The rule is about a 10 inch difference before it starts getting noticeably uncomfortable. Leave her for the 5'2'' guys, they need some love.

Brando · Accepted Answer

All I thought about when I read this was "You're taller than her...be happy".

desidoll · Answer

To answer your question yes she is too short for you.You sound like you are not comfortable with her height.If this bother you a lot it might effect your relationship.I think you need to figure out weither you can accept her weakness or not if you really want this relationship to work.If a guy told me that I need to wear huge heels I will understand why he said so but for sure I would feel hurt a little because that showed that he don't really feel comfortable with my height.

digitalchaos27 · Answer

xD whyyy would you guys look awkward? I think it'd be cute to see a couple with that height difference ^^ but you know, if it was a really tall girl dating a really short guuuy... That is when it's awkward.

also I would be majorly offended if a guy told me to wear heels to make him look better :/ just saying.

slipslender · Answer

... I would say goodbye to you.  i think she deserves someone who won't be embarrassed by her height. aka. someone better than you.

Anonymous · Answer

yes that would bother me I would feel like the guy doesn't like or that he is embarrassed to be seen with me.

Anonymous · Answer

height shouldn't matter too too much if you are in love.  I'm sure it has been done before.

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