If you're out somewhere and you spot a guy you find very attractive: but he's kind of just doing his own thing, probably hasn't even noticed you. Doesn't mean he's potentially uninterested; but it just looks apparent that probably nothing is gonna happen unless you yourself go over or some force of social nature happens to put you two in a correspondence of some sort. You also run into a decent, 'not bad' (in attractiveness) dude, that seems to be paying attention to you -be it flirting from a distance, or perhaps even actually initiating and talking with you.
Which situation do you find better as a single girl/woman?
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Probably attractive and not intrested (yet ;])...
If he's in a social area, such as a bar, etc. He should still take the role of trying to make the first move, but if he's just getting coffee or something, then if a girl is interested enough, then she'll most likely go up, assuming she's confident enough. ON the otherhand, a decent looking guy who is just showing SOME signs of interest is nice too. But the key is some, not completely overdoing it. Like its just creepy when a guy you just met is showing like serious signs of interest.
But ya, me being me, and actually having a lot of confidence, I'd probably go for the attractive but not super interested (yet..), but if I was quieter, I would prob go with the second choice.0