How important is looks to you in the opposite sex? Would you date someone just because they were hot? Would you not date someone because they weren't good-looking, even if they seemed like a likeable person? I'm just curious.
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looks can be eye candy or can force me to go and meet someone try to be their friend, but its only a gateway to see if the ultimate attraction will hinder- personality. like for example, I met this guy this past semester in my class and he is GORGEOUS. muscles, jawlines, cute smile, HOT. we started talking, he is mad friendly, but in reality, he seems like a crackhead. like he doesn't know anything, he says whatever, is lazy, not very intelligent, all he does is drink and get wasted, so I was turned off but he's a cool friend, that's about it.
in contrast, I met this guy in my freshman year. he loooked like a bum. he wore the same tshirt all the time, jeans, shaved when he wanted too.blah. But he came up to me to be my friend because we had mutual friends in common, and we had classes together, so we saw each other daily and got to know each other. He is such a SEXY guy. He is so outgoing, is ambitious, a family guy, has his group of friends outside of school, he's not afraid of what people think of him, we had philosophical debates, and talked about reality.not trash.he was funnny, and I was just so attracted to him. Not only did I fall hard for him, but I think he liked me too and he started to dress up a bit more, wear axe, clean shaven, I wanted to melt in his arms.0