Girls, are you envious of girls who are beautiful?
How do you express your envy? Are you the type who just automatically labels the girl a female dog or whore? Do you admire her rather & even compliment her? Or do you simply not care?
I'll admit I'm envious, but not in the sense that I label the girl. I have no problem admitting a girl is hot/sexy/gorgeous/beautiful and complimenting them. I do it all of the time, in the most un-creepy way possible. I'm average at best and I'm accepting of that & I don't think it's fair to bring another person down simply because they are "better" than me in a sense.
i don't automatically label anyone anything unless I get to know their personality...
but just by looking at girls, of course I get envious sometimes and almost get inspiration from them to improve my body as well, or try the style theyre rocking, etc there's always room for improvement and sometimes we meet people with better looks than us, sometimes they look less than us its all diversity, when I see a pretty girl I just end up staring at her in a good way analyzing her outfit and makeup to get tips ;)
I'm envious of handsome men. I just think how awesome it would be to look like that and how happy it would make me. How I looking in the mirror would make me feel good instead of awful. I definitely don't label a good looking guy as an a**hole or a douchebag automatically. I don't think I've ever complimented a guy on his looks. I would kind of admire the guy, yeah.
I would kind of like to see the answers on this in reverse too. If beautiful/handsome people look at ugly people and just think they're garbage.
You didn't ask guys, but I'm sure you won't throw a bitch fit over me answering.
I do get envious, only because I have no idea how I stac k up to them. I was an ugly duckling, so some times I have no idea how to process what I see in the mirror, and have always seen myself as less beautiful than some of those girls.
I try not to be mean, and I really do try to be nice. Its hard to hate the girl when she is both gorgeous and really funny, and I secretly hope that she is. I can't stand when really pretty girls are stupid or mean.
Ive totally caught myself assuming a girl is a bitch, then I meet her and she's really nice.
I envy beautiful girls because I will never be one of them and will never experience the charmed life they live or have the internal satisfaction of knowing I'm beautiful.
I'm never mean to a girl I envy. In fact, I will often compliment them. If they're a friend then I'm creepy about it and make sexual jokes. If they're a stranger, I'll just tell them what I think is pretty about them.
Sometimes I try to avoid making friends with beautiful girls because being around them a lot is a constant reminder of what I lack, but I always seem to attract beautiful girls as friends.
Well me personally I can definitely appreciate a hot woman. OR beauty but if her attitude stinks and she is unfriendly or stuck-up- I'm to good for anyone mentality , automatically her looks start to disintegrate into fine dust. I am confident with myself and I think beauty is unique.. if I do feel jealous I certainly don't show it. I am not a h8er tho- If anything I like to have good looking friends!
yes I get envious but I don't label anyone before I know them well enough. I don't really go up to people and compliment them, more like I see what I like about them and see if there's anything I could learn from her like how she walks, dresses etc.
Yea, of course. Depends on the situation. Once when I was interning for the radio stations--they had an event at the mall---I had to go around asking people if they wanted to be on the air, and all they had to say is,"you're listening to 106.1 BLI." Anyway, I saw this girl she was like 5'9/5'10 she must have been mixed race because her skin was very light, but she would be considered African American. Her eyes were blue and her hair was golden. I swear she was the most beautiful girl I ever saw. I told her too. I was like, "I don't mean to be weird or anything, but you should model because you are gorgeous!" She smiled and said thank you. You can see how proud her grandma was too. I think what made her more beautiful was the fact that she was beautiful inside too. She just GLOWED! I'm not kidding you this girl glowed. I am still jealous. I wish I looked like that. =P
I'm not envious of anyone , I'm not perfect but I love myself enough that I don't think much about how another person looks like. If I see someone that's pretty I might give them a compliment but it doesn't mean they are better or less pretty then me.
Personally, I don't think it's possible to be beautiful and a whore. If you actually act that way, your beauty is pretty much cut in half. But I very much agree with you. I wouldn't say I'm gorgeous, but I don't think any girl should call herself ugly. Also I like complimenting people, it makes them smile. :)
sure, I get envious. but I don't wish anything bad upon them. I just acknowledge that there are some truly beautiful people out there. if I'm friends with her, I will compliment her. if it's just a random stranger, I don't say anything.
Ofcourse I'm a little bit jealous. But I'm jealous at girls that wear nicer clothes/ are more spontaneous/ have more talents too. That's just normal I guess. But I definitely don't label them biches or whores, I mean c'mon, that they are pretty doesn't say anything about their inside. I can get along with pretty girls very well. Pretty much all of my female friends are far above average looking. It's just their luck that they got good looks, other people might be extremely inteligent or have other talents.
i like to say it out loud , compliment if we're close enough, I worry it might sound awkward if we just met or something.
if I don't know her and she's in the same environment school office etc often I'll start telling other people, mutual friends that she's beautiful. it's a fact, I'm not a lesbian, let's simply accept and appreciate beauty :P plus it's better than being quiet about it and seem like a jealous/mean person.
on the other hand, I wouldn't want to be around a gorgeous girl all the time, or have her hanging out with my boyfriend often etc.
I don't think there w... Or envy them but I do wish I looked as cute as them but you know I think mayb some girls feel like that about me. I've only envied one girl just cause she was so cute and beutiful and she had the bestest attitude ever made her look even more beautiful
don't want to admit it, but yea, I get both envious at first then jealous
Haha yeah, I just look at her a ton and size her up. Actually a lot the way guys check out girls, I compare every aspect of myself to her. Then I get depressed, and wish I wasn't single :(
I don't like hate or label the beautiful girls, I just get really down on myself. but I leave the other girls out of it.
I have no problem admitting if someone is better looking then me but I still think that I'm a beautiful girl I know I'm not the best looking but I'm pretty. I don't get envious of them because there is nothing to gain from doing so. Have I thought "wow I wish I looked like that" yes but I'm not going to think they're a whore or label them as something they're not. That's just not the kind of person that I am.