My female friend and I are having a debate that we can't come to an agreement on. She says that it looks trashy and girls who don't know any better dress like that and are sending the wrong message to guys. I say that it looks great, it's normal and considered to be classy to have a nice looking pair of jeans and heels on (pumps, sandals, slingbacks - your choice). We're talking about doing normal everyday things like going to work, shopping, or going to a restaurant for lunch, whatever. Also, we're not talking about shoes a stripper would wear, just normal heels.
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Have a great New Years!
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Whaaaaaaat? I love wearing heels with jeans as do most of my friends. I don't think it's ever passed our minds as being trashy. I mean, maybe if you're wearing a lowcut top with cleavage out to there. But what? What other shoes are we respectable women supposed to wear out? You can only go so far wearing flats. (and don't tell me to wear sneakers to look nice.)
If she thought wearing heels with a mini skirt was slutty or trashy, I'd no doubt agree. But jeans? Com'on lighten up.2