on a scale of 1-10
10 being top priority...
how much is Looks and appearance a importance to you?
how about Personality?
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its a top priority to me when we are first getting know each other and if ill want to even think of you romantically. if I think of you as a potential friend, then it doesn't matter. I have to be physically attracted to any potential lovers, though, sorry. I don't want someone, to whom I'm not attracted, touching me intimately or anything. that's weird.
if I haven't spoken to him yet or gotten to know him, I doubt his personality could even be a realistic factor, as I don't know him at all. lol I look for vibes though, comments, responses to my humor and my personality and comments. that's usually the sign of whether or not there's potential.
many many people dont/cant convey their true personality to you at any given moment, so it isn't really always realistic to assume that you have a great grasp on someones personality. I'm usually good with perception, but still, I've been wrong before. peoples true colors come out eventually, or you just met them in a good/bad mood, whatever. I talk to everyone because I love getting to know people, but looks are very very important to me in relationships. I need to be strongly attracted to the person.
ill literally talk to anyone as long as its not a safety hazard or some sh*t. you can be ugly as hell and ill still talk to you, get to know you for a little bit, have a conversation. will I date you ? no.