I kind of have my own style which largely consists of jackets that are pretty brightly colored, with some really crazy red/orange shoes. Sometimes I wear a bandana around my neck cause it looks cool. My question is, are some girls not approaching me because they think I'm gay. I was talking to this one girl at a bar yesterday and she was in shock when I asked for her number because she said she thought I was gay.
My voice is pretty low and I don't talk or act like a guy guy ("Lyke OMG"). I don't wanna change the way I dress cause I like the way I look, it's just been bothering me lately.
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No, not really. I don't judge guys on the way that they dress. Sometimes it is hard to tell if a guy if gay anyways. Not all of them have that distinct voice and often fall below the gaydar haha. I used to work at Hollister where all the guys dressed nice and didn't look gay, but many of them were. Don't change the way that you dress! && I am sure that there are girls who don't think you are gay. If you give a girl your number and she says that she thought you were gay just say no and laugh it off and say something jokingly like, " I thought you were a lesbian, but I just had to try." haha or something like that.