For example the girl in heels, jeans, a nice top, make up and done hair v the girl in old sneakers, t-shirt, jeans, make up and hair tied back. (both girls might take the exact same time to get ready and care about their appearance the same but girl two appears more casual thus making her look like she takes less time/ cares less etc..) I dress like the first girl and I get the dirtiest looks and some rude comments(slut, whore etc..) from other females and quite a few guys look at how I dress and seem to assume I am self absorbed and/or dumb, But if I dress like the other girl, females are nice to me and same with males. I see this happen to other women as well, I don't understand what is wrong with dressing up a little?
* I do not dress slutty and example of what I would usually wear would be: dark wash skinny jeans, tank top, cardigan, scarf with 3 inch wedge heels.
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Jealousy and contempt is at the root of it. We all know that people who take care of their appearance tend to look better. A good looking well kept girl is likely to inspire jealousy in other girls who feel as if they don't measure up compared to her. And some guys will assume you're rude because they are thinking of the "snobby pretty girl who will reject me" stereotype. Either way, it's just people hating on you because you look good. 9 times out of 10 those are the same people who don't do as much with their own appearance. They may not look as good as they can, so they feel jealous and inferior to those who do. Nothing is wrong with dressing up just like nothing is wrong with dressing down. Some people just inject their biased personal feelings in the mix that's all.2