Hi, I was wondering if it was wrong or bad too dress and look slutty or easy?
I tend to wear clothes that show of a lot of skin like legs and stomach, I don't think I'm ugly and I find its a way to meet guys.
Is their another solution to get guys to approach me, because I would rather they come to me first, or are slutty clothes the way to go?
Also most of the guys I meet are not that bad, I know you would be thinking that they only want sex but some are actually decent guys.
Your thoughts please?
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There's nothing wrong with what you're doing, and any girl who tells you otherwise is just jealous of the methods you are using, because they either don't have the guts OR the body to do what you do.
Just be careful not to go overboard, though. I personally think the main thing that makes a girl look slutty is her make up. Especially when they paint their eyelids. Ugh, it's horrible. =.= Same with fake eyelashes. It just looks weird and puts me off a little.
If you think you're not abusing the make up, though (or aren't using it at all), then don't worry. But if I were you I'd try keeping your bra and stuff out of sight (if you don't already). I don't know how you dress so I'm just giving you an idea of what might be considered too much.
And keep in mind that, depending on where you are, people will look down on you if you're showing off too much skin. It's not a very good idea to walk into a fancy restaurant wearing ridiculously tiny shorts and a tank top, for example. :I
But hey, I like your approach. It IS a good way to meet guys, and I wish more girls would come to terms with this and stop acting as though showing a bit of their body is a bad thing. Just because girls show some skin doesn't mean a guy won't be interested in her personality (as long as she actually have one, of course).1