I asked a question about this and was told that I should get over it since he is my boyfriend. I am trying to get over it but I also want to improve myself.
my boyfriend doesn't compliment me or call me pretty or beautiful which is OK by me but he calls other girls beautiful to their faces in front of me like when we are at a restaurant and the waitress is pretty or at a store and the girl in front of us is pretty or he will compliment my friends.
i would really love for him to think of me as beautiful for once and our anniversary is coming up in 2 weeks.
do you have any advice at all? just general since I won't post a picture on here
Most Helpful Girl
Don't work too hard here.
1. You have a very rude boyfriend; he tells you that other women are pretty & beautiful? or tells them in front of you but never tells you that you are? He's rude, and thoughtless.
2. He compliments your friends. How nice. But he can't compliment you? He's a cad.
3. He is blatantly hurting your feelings & he knows it. He knows it. And he does not care.
You are letting him walk all over you & you set the president for this when he started all of this bad behavior. You should have spoken up when it first started. Better late than never. Tell him it bothers you when he tells other women to their faces that they are pretty & beautiful when in your company. And it hurts your feelings when he compliments your friends too, because he never says any of these things to you. Tell him you are not jealous of these women, that you are hurt by his actions and you do not understand his behavior. Then ask him to explain it.
Then be quiet and listen. If you don't like his answer, move on.0