I have dated a few guys on the smaller side like skinnier than me but also dated a few guys bigger than me aka taller. But I still felt protected because the slightly smaller guys I was in a relationship with did always protect me. I'm 5'7 and the shortest I've dated is 5'5, not much of a variance but I think his personality compensated and I don't always go for the physical traits, I mostly focus on his personality and the goodness lol if that makes sense.
Yup, and I have. I'm 5'10" and pretty curvy, so it's not hard to find a guy who's shorter/smaller/skinnier than me. I dated a guy who was my height and much skinnier than me. I thought he was sexy as hell. But honestly, not by HEAPS. If he was 5'5" and disappeared when he turned to the side, I doubt I'd be attracted.
I know this sounds mean, but I'm already pretty small so I couldn't do it if they were smaller. I like them at least the same size because I'd feel as if I'd squish them or hurt them because I'd be bigger
Hm, I've dated some short girls, the shortest being 4'11. The height difference got in the way sometimes though, me being at 5'10. I wouldn't mind if a girl was slightly taller than me, just not anything ridiculous, it'd be similarly awkward :\. Though when it comes to preference, I prefer shorter girls, I have a serious soft spot for them.
Since I've been on gag I realized lots of girls have no issue judging a man by his cover. I always believed and heard girls are all about personality etc... So it came as a big surprise to realize just how superficial most girls are. I used to go to great extent trying not to hurt girls feelings. Now I feel guilt free and it's been a liberating experience really. Thanks ladies to have opened my eyes about how you treat men.