I'm 16 I weight 230 I'm 5"9 almost 5"10 and my boyfriend is 19 5"11 and weighs 195..he tells me I'm beautiful.. just the way I am and I shouldn't worry about it so much, but I can't help but think maybe I should worry about it more. We have a really great relationship, and he says I should just trust him and I do, but I don't like my body and I don't want him to be mad if I did try losing weight..everyone says I'm just big boned..but I still think I'm overweight..and ugly, and I don't know if he'd be mad at me if I started losing weight..
I don't like my body and I don't want him to be mad if I did try losing weight.
What Guys Said 2
Just explain to him that it's something you want to do for you. Thank him for his concern, but explain that this is something you want for yourself and not something that necessarily has anything to do with him.
Good luck, and remember that the only worth wile weight loss plans are the one's that achieve weight loss through healthy life style changes. No short cuts. You can do this.0
Don't worry about it. There are so man different body types, and there are so many people who find each one of them beautiful.
If you feel overweight and ugly- lose some weight. What does it matter what he thinks. If he is unhappy with that, then shame on him because he should want you to be happy1
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