Ok I have a pretty awesome body (not bragging or conceded) I am cute (who doesn't think that) my hair stops at my neck but the problem is my personality when I am around boys or a boy I like I come off as mean not only do other people see it but I do to but that's not what I want to happen but I have never had a real boyfriend and I don't know how to talk to guys I don't know why and I don't know how to stop it any advice anybody
I don't think it isn't because your not attractive
first comes looks, looks attract the guy and personality keeps him, why don't you try working on your personality? try being nice , try talking to them first. And if you say something rude, apologize or say it was a joke
The "meaness" is defensive on your part. It's an avoidance mechanism. When you talk with guys, you should focus on things they like or are into -- guys appreciate that, probably moreso than girls. When it comes to having more guys in your life, you have to make yourself approachable -- smile at them; make eye contact; say hello; etc. Then you should talk to them about some mutual topic of interest -- school, sports, music or as I said ask them about things you know they are into.
I understand what you mean! Have people around you been hurt by guys or something? Or have you been going to feminist groups or something? lol j/k Just try to slowly ease up towards them...a lot of them can be nice I promise! Give them a chance! =)