It's not that it is not Okay, it's just that everyone wants them, so they have the pick of the litter, so prepare yourself for rejection if the girl does not want to give you a chance. This goes for good looking guys too because some girls want it all (looks & brains).
I see some really ugly guys paired up with gorgeous women. In all honesty, the charisma discrepancy is much more forgiving for men than it is women.
Generally the ugly guy has a great sense of humor and is a genuinely good person. However, when neither feature is present, I wonder to myself if she got with him because he has an enormous penis or something. It's all I can figure.
Trust me on this, if she's screaming at him for asking her out, he's FAR better off that she did say what she did when she said it. I'm not justifying her extreme idiotic, downright childish behavior, I'm just saying. It's a pity that looks determine almost determine everything these days.