Do you have a friend who you KNOW is better looking than you?

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whenever he and I go partying together, he ALWAYS has chicks hanging all over him JUST because of his looks. I say that because he is a really bizarre guy, no jk. Its funny to me how whenver he and I go partying, I really understand how superficial girls get when they are around him. They all talk to him and ignore everyone else in the room, it's honestly ridiculous.

Girls get jealous of their friends are cuter than they are (dont try to deny that girls). I don't get jelous, I just have the same amount of respect for him and he'll bring the girls (really hot ones) to me too because he's one of my best friends! lol.

It definitely has it's advantages having a good looking friend. It's like I don't have to do half the work of talking to them, because NOW they come to me and my friends.

THE ONLY problem with this is that he attracts some really big sluts that don't want to do with anyone BUT him. Its cool to be around the popular group with the hot girls. But it honestly sucks when they don't pay ANY attention to you, haha.

Cuddle_Muffin · Accepted Answer

Dude I really loved your question. (5 stars)

Let me answer this question perfectly.

Answer to direct question: Yes and No. My opinion about my friends looks differ...most of them think I look better than them or I look around the same attractiveness as them...so it depends on our opinions on each of our looks. I personally find my friend Tiffany with long (to her waist) brown hair and green eyes to be absolutely beautiful...she even has a nice ass too. (no homo, but DAMN) Anyway, she always asked me "girl is my make up right...i think I look a mess..." I always say..."Bitch, you are beautiful...stop talking sh*t." LOL...but that is how we are...I am not jealous of her...but I know she is top notch and obviously more attractive than me...in my opinion.

I talked to a lot of my guy friends who say they either had a crush on her...or would **** her if they had a chance. I won't lie sometimes I feel like low quality against her, but her being an honest and nice person...she always says I am better looking. LOL..we actually argued...I said..."I have brown eyes and black hair...that is so simple...I am not even all that." She would say "STFU, you are the only girl I know with gold brown eyes...that sparkle...and your hair is a shiny black that looks really beautiful on you..." LOL...I would say "yeah ok...that is why most guys don't hit on me." It is OK though...I know there are other reasons...beauty varies on the eye of the beholder. Sometimes I get hit on more than her...sometimes she gets hit on more than me...Honestly, it depends on the dudes.

For the situation bettween you and your friend: I feel like you are very good looking and so is your friend. I won't lie or just try to compliment you because you asked this question and you sort of feel less atracttive towards your friend. Anyway, I will say why both of you guys are attractive to "me"(some girls might find either of you unappealing...some may only you or your friend appealing.) Well, I feel you friend has beautiful features; nice bone structure, pretty eyes, nice lean body, facial hair (which I like), thick eyebrows (I have a weird fetish), olive toned skin (which I like)...and I guess funny personality...from what I say in the pictures. As for you..I couldn't see much from your pictures..they were sort of small...but I looked on your profile to get more of a visual image. I think you look really cute...I like your eyes they look bigger and I couldn't tell if they were blue...but I like blue eyes, I saw you were lean and you had a more relaxed appeal toward your personality...(which I also liked)...nice smile (<3), thick eyebrows...you sort of remind me of this guy... link minus the light blond hair...which is pretty awesome.

So, don't worry about your looks. I feel those type of girls like guys who are out going...and more expressive...something about that appeals to them. You may not be that type of person...

oOsweet~o~nessOo · Accepted Answer

Yea, I think both my best friends are hotter than me honestly lol:

Here's best buddy 1: link

She's absolutely stunning - Brazilian and English heritage (speaks like 4 languages fluently lol, Portugese is her 1st language.

Every guy was like in love with her lol She had like 8 boyfriends at different times during our sophomore year of high school lol - (she's still a virgin by the way -) Like getting guys was so effortless for her.

Here's best buddy 2: link

Very pretty, has huge boobs lol, big butt all the nice stuff ha ha - she had no problems getting guys either, really cool girl with an awesome personality. Sensual too and flirty.

Here's me :\ : link

I've never had a boyfriend :\ guys just didn't come so easily to me as they did for my other friends - even though I had a lot of dude friends. We always just stayed friends lol.

Things are a little different now - it's not to difficult for me to get guys who are actually interested in me, but I still believe both my bf's are hotter than me ha ha.

I've never been the jealous type, so when we go out I'm not like crying in the bathroom or getting frustrated if all the dudes are gawking over them. It hurts a bit sometimes but I mean - hey what can you do? Be angry about it? So what, it won't change anything. Just have to deal with the cards your dealt. Sure they have tons of guys on them, but most of the dudes turn out to be jerks. If anything, it saves me the trouble of dealing with the long nights of crying, self hate, confusion and such I have to nurse those two through when they pick the wrong types of guys.

Plus I mean, having a partner isn't everything; at this point and time, eh, it's better to focus on what direction I'd like my life to take - not trying to collect a bunch of guys nums in my phone lol

But I love my two best friends to death - wouldn't trade them for the world :D

Ponchi · Accepted Answer

Looking at your photos, I honestly wouldn't concider your friend, aesthetically more 'blessed' than you, you guys are both good looking young men. However, what I DO see, is that he conducts himself in a completely different manner, his composure is one of confidence; he KNOWS he's hot, thus the sluts THINK he's hot, whereas you seem more modest.

Young women inpaticular, instinctually like men who are 'powerful' or at least act that they are, who can 'protect' them (femenists, if you're going to winge at me, get f***ed). Which is why your friends 'alpha male' act is getting him the sluts.

I've seen guys, much less good looking than you( and you're friend), CONSTANTLY having hot chicks hanging off their arm, because they act confident. When they speak about their hobbies, whether it be Starcraft or W.O.W, the speak about it with confidence, and don't feel apologetic for who they are.

My solution: Be yourself, but be confident. Be loud and proud, and don't let the girls see your self doubt, because as soon as they see any sign of weakness, you've lost them.

Hope that helps, good luck getting 'sluts' in the future.

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You got the right idea and I had the same situation as you do back in the day. I hung around with this guy a good friend of mine who was a ladies man and he got the good looking chicks by the numbers. And you're right he'd bring the dirt too. Thing was he'd end up with the chicks who like him wanted to get under the sheets and I was too dumb or shy to make a move for the decent girls he'd pass up. Like you I didn't get jealous either and I like you enjoyed the fact he was pulling in the chicks. At that time we were like 15 and as luck would have it he ended up in my opinion with the worst one who ruined it all. So my advice to you is continue doing what you're doing and start getting some numbers while you can. And don't be shy like I was you'll end up old and alone. When those girls start giving him all the attention pick one you like then bud in a little and hit a little and also have a go to girl picked out so if the one you liked better shoots you down go to the other one and pick it up with her. You're also right about chicks getting jealous instead of knowing the magnet game like we do they tend to drive away their friends to avoid competition that are actually pulling in the guys. Then they end up worse off than they were before. Even today if I had the opportunity again to hang with a chick magnet like my friend again I would jump on the idea in a heartbeat. Me and my old friend though we don't talk much today we're still friends. You got the right idea just don't move in on his own girl or anything like that cause that ain't cool and you're cool.

InquisitiveMale · Accepted Answer

You're post has a hint of jealousy hidden in it. You mask it fairly well but some bits still remain.

As for him getting all the girls based purely on his looks is just rubbish. I've got a handful of better looking friends then me and I do better then them all in the ladies department. You can catch the the attention of another purely on your looks but you can't keep it without personality and style.

Charisma gets the ladies. Your looks are just what speeds the process along. It lets you skip the initial wow factor you need otherwise.

lapa5 · Answer

Yeah. I have a friend like that. She is gorgeous. And I mean, perfect looking. When we walk down the street, I see guys looking our way. I look up and they are always staring at her. I'm invisible, when next to her.

I'm not ugly, rather average. I also lack confidence and I don't dress like her. She doesn't look slutty, but she has this great sense of fashion, that just makes every guy turn to look at her, from head to toe. My clothes are plain and sporty. Unlike her, I always prefer comfortable clothes like sneakers, hoodies, jumpers and high weighst jeans. Not because I'm fat, just because it's comfortable. When I try wearing something "stylish" or "sexy", I act like a kitten who just to it's first collar. I push and pull everything. ^^'

I do get jealous sometimes. But I prevent myself from continuing to feel like that, by remembering that despite all her flaws and her superiority complex, she tries to be a better person, she loves me like a sister and I feel the same. She's been there for me all her life and I can never feel jealous for too long. I'm happy there is a picture of perfect beauty like her in my life.

The truth is, when I'm next to her, I mostly get this feeling of lesser value. I feel as if I'm too ugly and that's why I get no male attention. But then I get asked out by guys, I am flirted with, I look in the mirror and I see I'm not as ugly as I feel next to her. I guess I just remind myself that I will one day find a guy who will look past her and give me a shot. A guy who will like me for having a personality he likes, not just for being the prettiest girl he sees.

Though I am starting to doubt such a guy exists though.

windy-rose · Answer

I hear ya, my best friend is pretty much the deffination of well proportioned, can be a bit of a flirt and acts adorable all the time. Anytime we're out, I'm always 'the friend,' relegated to making snarky remarks and a source of info. Its not all bad, as she doesn't blow me off or anything. But I'm defiantly not the center of male attention.

Generally speaking though, I just know more people, so usally I end up wandering off because I'll see someone I know and she doesn't out and go say hi. So it kinda sorta evens out.

ShootingStar5 · Answer

Honestly, I find you more attractive than your friend. You have a sweetness quality that shines in your eyes and smile and I've always found that attractive. But your friend looks like he'd be arrogant and possibly a jerk, and his nose is kinda fugly lol.

Everybody has different tastes, so even though he might be more attractive to most girls (especially the more immature ones from the way it sounds), there will still be some girls who find you more attractive. Look on the bright side, at least you can weed out the superficial girls by seeing which ones hang all over him just cause they think he's cute ;)

lisa_rowe · Answer

Well, I kinda understand you. I have a friend who loves the way he looks very much. He always is like " do you like my tummy, do you like my legs, ass" and etc. He's pretty cute guy very confident in his looks and character. But I don't envy him. I know what I have and that is it.

Otherwise, I'm very insecure. I don't like anything about myself and stuff. People often tells me I look very pretty.

There's that kind of people who are just not afraid of showing off themselves.

And the boy you're talking about is that kind. He's kinda bad boy, that's why girls are drawn to him. He's confident and he has self-esteem. People like that kind.

Girls get jealous of their cutter friends.. Well, they could but I've never been jealous of my friends. Maybe some celebrity or actually maybe a friend but if she's very beautiful and achieved something very big and important.

gemglam · Answer

I don't know if I have a friend that is better looking than me because I usually get the guys I am attracted to and my friends and I kind of have different taste in men (very good thing). I do know that one has to be confident to hold there own. When I am around a friend that is more confident than me, it kinda makes me laugh at how she looks for attention but I love all the same. I think if you go out more either by yourself or with people you consider equally or less good looking than you, it will build your confidence more so that when you are out with him you won't act like his side kick.  Its the confidence he radiates that is magnetic to women.

FierceMegan · Answer

That guy is not really that good looking.

Also, I think my friends and I look a lot different from each other, but we are all pretty in different ways. My friend Lisa is very tall and darker than I am, and she is beautiful. I think she is 5'8/9. I am 5'5, and I have lighter features. I think we are both pretty.

My friend Geraldine is Chinese we don't look a like at all and she is beautiful! I am a white girl! hahahaha =D Also, my cousins are half pakistani, and are beautiful, but I look nothing like them and I am nice looking too. I think, but then again, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

angelwithin · Answer

Almost every girl I know (almost lol) is better looking than me. They're prettier with skinny waists. So, of course I notice that when guys want to "hang/chill", they run to hang with them, but when they need help with anything, I'm the first they run to (80 - 90% of the time). So, yes I notice the difference. It makes me feel bad sometimes though (not jealous) .. just hurt, that they only talk to me when they need something just because they know I'll help and because I have my act together. That's changing though (I'm starting to say no to those people! lol finally!), so soon enough that crowd will be gone too and hopefully only my real friends will stay. As for guys noticing me, eh lol when my time comes and I'm ready to settle down, I know for a fact I'll find someone then. Right now, I'm still in college and most of the guys my age aren't mature enough to handle a girl like me yet =)

Bubbleguy68 · Answer

yes, I have a friend like that too! I don't consider myself as ugly, but I know that he is prettier than me! for example, now we're in different schools, and he has already attracted some girls! I can't say the same for me. yes, I get jealous sometimes! honestly, there are times that I want to beat him up and see if girls will still hang all over him...! but that's just "sometimes"! we're friends, for God sake!

anyway, don't worry about that! I know how you feel. and in my opinion he's not that better than you! you look great too ;)

heyyodude · Answer

Honestly, I have a friend who is drop dead gorgeous and I'm the only one of her friends that doesn't hate her for it. That is something is completely out of your control and yeah, sometimes it sucks but a lot of the time, but I bet there are things about YOU that make you one up him. For example, I can play sports and do art and she's not very good at either of those things.

It all depends on values, what the girls value and what you value, that determines how much it'll bother you. But keep in mind, looks aren't everything and if THAT'S what these girls are going for, then why would you even want their attention?

Anonymous · Answer

i've got friends that are prettier than me, and I definitely get jealous. but then I realize that love my friends and they are worth way more to me than some guy, and that jealousy dies down quickly. but I've recently realized that people go for different types of people. I mean, there are some guys that find me prettier than them, though not that often.

anyway, why care about superficial girls. you want someone who thinks you're awesome, not a girl who thinks your good-looking.

ps. I don't think your friend is not hot at all.

JennSG · Answer

Haha yes I do and I love it. She wasn't very attractive when we were little but is now freaking gorgeous and I think that's really cool, how people can change physically but still act the same way. Plus, she has lots of attractive guy friends and is always willing to hook me up!

mormollio · Answer

I'm not drop dead gorgeous or anything. I  still feel cocky for saying this, but I feel like I'm better than some of my friends in the face department, but my friends have better bodies than me. I'm A-cup and about 75% of my friends have huge boobs/ bigger ass.

cun7n1nja · Answer

I definitely know what you mean, haha, I'm used to having 'hotter' friends. And I'm not denying my friends are beautiful girls, inside AND out, but they definitely get more male attention. I can't say that it doesn't bother me on occasion, but I'm used to it, and I'm not going to drop some of the best ladies I've managed to KEEP as friends in my life [because they're good friend material], just because guys are more interested in them than they are in me, typically. =P

Your friend doesn't seem THAT great though. I don't think he's any more or less attractive than you, but maybe he clowns around more in public or something lol, that tends to bring a lot of attention.

NellziiBabii · Answer

Hes ugly tho... Maybe he projects confidence? Thts a big turn on nxt time uz go together be confident! Ur actually better looking than him and he looks like a douche.

Yeah I've had 2 good friends like tht:

1 Average height nice tan and a killer body she's got amazing curves!

2 5'6 not bone skinny but very slim she used to get a lot of attention then she got her hair cut and died she loved it but it wasn't so good...

But w the rest of my group I'm the girl who gets em :) but had to work for it

Phoenix1991 · Answer

Well, not necessarily , but I wouldn't know which among my friends is the most attractive because I don't boast I'm attractive, but they do through how women can't keep their hands off them ,etc. So in my opinion it might be true, I think it can go either way, with my friends.

I probably mentioned this before but my friends came up with a nickname for me called "the wife stealer" I don't know how this stupid rumor began but I'm stuck with it now. They claim I ruin relationships when I walk by or interact with them. I think my best friend is more of the attention grabber out of the group. He does and says some of the funniest sh*t in the world and it gets girls to talk to him. In reality, it all depends on whose the most elusive with their tongue...not sexually only lol.

AzureGirl · Answer

I have a friend who is blond, skinny, and actually models. She's beautiful. The funny part is guys are all over her, but she's gay XD

But yeah, the girl is like a sister to me and we pretty much grew up together. We're like sisters. And our birthdays are a few days apart so our parents (who are also friends) put our birthdays together all the time.

But yeah, Me: A normal sized girl with dark brown hair next to a super skinny blond who models. Yes, I have a friend who I know is better looking. Do I care? No, I'm beautiful in my own way =)

labellavita · Answer

ok I don't see your question. but here is my opinion. I have some pretty girlfriends whom all flock together in their interests and then there is me. I like motorcycles, skating, etc vs them whom care about the latest christian louboutin heels, manicures and who is f***ing who. I cherish them to death and get hit just as much as them because I can relate to others. anyway, back to my point, I  have found instead of focusing on whom they are also bringing to the table, focus on what they can offer me. Yup, I milk that cow baby. I recently got to go to the gun range with a professional hockey player, vip in clubs and expensive restaurants, boating trips, football games, etc. don't know the difference men vs female but try telling your friend to have these hoes start making some food, washing cars or something. why not kill two birds with one stone?! ya know. goodnight.

DLaney · Answer

I'm not that attracted to him. Your friend on the far left is cute though.

Anyway, yes I have friends who are more attractive then me. I live in a sorority house full of girls who are prettier then me, but I get to date their boyfriend's friends who are way cute, and I get to raid their closets. I am perfectly content with my life.

I also find that a lot of the time guys are superficial about looks. I'm fine being average, it means I hopefully have a better personality and am smarter then some of the others. I have to compensate some how, right?

xobrowneyedbeauty · Answer

i have friends who are prettier than me, definitely. but the only time I get jealous is if a guy I like likes them. I don't care how many guys they get as long as I get someone (which I usually do have someone who likes me lol). by the way you are definitely cuter than your friend in my opinion.

Living-the-ADvenTURe · Answer

Honestly, why would you want attention from those type of girls in the first place? Just be yourself, and find interest in the girls that do talk to you. This way, you will find a girl that is right for YOU, not for someone more like your friend. You will be much happier with a girl who cares to get to know you, rather than one who just runs to the best looking guy in the room all the time.

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