Hello everyone, I just want to say I think I really have bad luck with the opposite gender. See I'm a well groomed Guy, I have a nice body, handsome face, I dress very nice, I'm very approachable, I have a great personality, I make people laugh and have a good time. I even know I'm a good catch but its just I feel my luck is very bad, its like I have all the things girls want in a man but I'm cursed not to get them At all. And don't say I'm too much of a nice Guy or whatever, I stand up for myself all the time. I dress nice and expensive because I want too. But my point is should I just not give a f*** about being high maintenance and dress like a plain Guy, should I even care about being well groomed? Because it seems the guys who don't care about that get girls. So can all of you guys and girls help me out?
Most Helpful Girl
well there is such a thing as overdressing. its like an interview. imagine you see some guy in a suit at the grocery store. its not very approachable. first of all you think he's probably just out from work really tired or he's off to somewhere important, while here's me looking kinda gross just getting the groceries as usual. also if you're really worried about women not liking your appearance, maybe you should just approach them and talk to them. that could break the ice and maybe then they won't just be judging you. though really to me it just sounds like you never really meet women, you just know women through social situations that forces you to work together, when there's this vast world of women out there just waiting for you to say hi just because you see them at all.
but I don't know you and your appearance. just walk up and ask a random lady if she thinks anything could be done to improve your appearance. ask a lady that you would wanna go out with, as in she's hot, because you wanna attract those kinda ladies.
and I think how you should dress could vary a lot depending on how old you are and which town you live in0
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