To wash I use Dr. Bronner's liquid hemp castile soap in almond scent: link , and these liquid castile soaps are great because you can use them for like half a million different things, haha. It's kinda spendy but it's worth it because it lasts forever and a little goes a LONG way. I also have a small rose-scented bottle that I switch it up with on occasion. All kinds of good scents.
To condition I use Hask henna and placenta treatments: link , but there's one with olive oil now that I really want to try too: link . I also use a little of their leave-in treatment on occasion: link .
moroccian oil moisture shampoo and conditioner and then the oil treatment and glimmer shine wile its still wet and then let it air dry and flat iorn it with moriccian oil hair spray which is super light. I have bleahed blond hair so it workes to keep my hair perfect.