I've been married for 10+ years and my wife is no longer attracted to me. We are great friends, don't fight, and I think that she is VERY attractive, but she doesn't feel that way about me.
What can I do to get a woman to be "attracted" to me physically?
What Girls Said 4
i don't know what your physical condition is, but working out might help. six pack and triple v's are hot. and I don't like hair (like chest hair, facial hair). does she? what did she originally like about you? go back to that if you can (like if it was hair color you could dye yours).0
Look sharp, smell nice, smile and be helpful (like if you see her running for the train, try to hold the door for her. Stand up straight (it makes us feel a little more dainty if you're taller with good posture).0
Did she ever feel that way about you? I'm not getting what you're asking. Seems like if she married you that she had to feel some sort of physical attraction. Has it been this way for a while? If not, can you recall when it changed? Did you change in some way?0
The hottest straight guys I know are not afraid to look at another guy and admit (probably only to their female friends) that another guy is good looking. They see things that make the guy look good, clothes, hair style, personal hygiene, physical shape, etc and they incorporate it into their style. These guys get lots of girls and some of the hottest girls. It does not make them gay, it makes them more appealing to the opposite gender. You don't have to admit to anyone that you do this but sometimes it's easiest to see what others are doing and make it your own.0
What Guys Said 1
Stop being so nice and understanding. Don't raise your voice or get angry, just stop tiptoeing around her hoping that by being a good guy she'll dig you again. It sounds counterintuitive, but try it.0
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