my skin is pale, and its winter. I don't want to go to a tanning bed because of the high risk of skin cancer, my hair would be damaged if I bleached it and everyone says this is the right color for me. is this so bad? the tanning creams leave marks everywhere. I don't know if this makes me unattractive
beauty these days is about looking like a generic clone. Fake tan is one of the worst crimes a woman can commit. Usually the people who are most vocal about this are the ones I would least entrust to questions concerning what true nature of beauty is. I'm sure you are beautiful as you are. Just be natural and yourself.
Eff that depends on how you act/dress. Plus being cute can't hurt anything. Hell if a girl was decent lookin, good personality, but was a ghost like casper and wore 10inch thick lense glasses. I would still lay some pipe in her plumbing.