i am a sophomore in high school and I have never had a boyfriend. I am overweight and I have just always contributed this to my singleness. I think my weight is the direct result, and indirect result. because of it, I am self conscience and shy. I'm not very outgoing around people I don't know. but once I start talking to them, I open up easily. well, I guess it depends on who it is.
so, while I am trying to change the way I look( I just joined track, and I go the gym sometimes, and I'm trying to eat healthier) how can I make myself look more attractive to boys at my school? besides my appearance. like the way I walk to class? little things guys notice that maybe doesn't have to do with appearance. I feel like the way I look on the outside(fat) doesn't reflect my personality on the inside. and sometimes guys don't even give me a chance to get to know them. how do I change this? any advice?
I'm sorry to tell you this but guys generally do not notice those little things you are thinking of. Guys, especially younger guys like around your age are pretty superficial and just as you thought looks are the most important thing. My advice would be to keep trying to be healthier and lose weight and people will notice. Other than that I would not try to change your appearance or your personality just to try and fit in better. Lose the weight, keep being you, and eventually you will find the right guy.
It takes awhile to get out of the shallow waters, but there are guys out there, but chances are they are already taken or shy themselves. So my only advice really is to lose some weight, guy's use their eyes to judge women right now, it's natural of them, and they can't help it, so if you really want to have someone, appearance is very important right now.
honey when I was in high school all my boyfriends started of as my friends or friends of friends. you don't need to change how you look or weigh because I saw your pic and you look cute to me. just have confidence be yourself and be a little flirty :)
do you really want to get a boyfriend who is only with you because of how you look? be yourself and eventually a nice guy will come along and ask you out. I find when your constantly looking for a guy you will never get one but if you just relax and live life for yourself and try to make yourself happy ussually a million guys will start popping ot of nowhere for you because they I guess sense the possitive attitude that your vibing off.
i used to always wear kitten heels (which are flats with a little heel) I always felt a little cuter with a little heel and it made me walk sexier lol