O.K. here it goes...sorry if its long
Now there is this coffee shop that I absolutely adore going to, everything is great about it except that 99.9 % of the waiters are gay...(not that its a bad thing...kinda..)
i have been going there FOREVER and only the past two or so months I have noticed a GORGEOUS guy that works there..black hair..blue eyes.. tanned, and a good body.. EXACTLY what I want in the looks department for a guy. Only Problem...
Now I've known that most of them there are gay but I just didn't wanna believe that he was one of them!There's just this funny feeling I get every time I look at him. He's been my waiter quite a few times and he's alawys very friendly with me mostly, and quite clumsy aswell if I might add. I can't help but laugh when he drops things and he laughs back and goes BLOOD red...mean I know..cant help it.=)
when I usually go out to have drinks with friends or family he always stares my way..even when we aren't his table! Its like always full eye contact..
Now the last time I went to have some drinks he was our waiter once more, I ordered this yummy drink and he complimented on my taste etc and he always smiles, now when we left I smiled broadly and told him to have a great day and he seemed rather shocked and said the same to me.
ever since then he always smiles at me if we look at each other and I kinda just look away quickly. from the corner of my eyes I always catch him looking at me...unless he has a #### eye... which I guarantee he doesn't!
This is embarrassing for me that I have actually fallen for a gay guy that I don't even know! there seems more to him than looks..and gayness... I don't know if I should tell anyone about it. I am too embarrased to even tell my BEST FRIEND! I want to tell my brother but I don't know how to tell him. since id like him to maybe help me out..but gosh...
Now my big questions are...
1. WHAT SHOULD I DO! I only know his name and that's thanks to the name badge they have to wear!
2. Is it possible that a gay guy can turn straight?
3. Is it possible that he MIGHT even be interested in me? Personally I feel this strange connection...but I'm not sure..
4. What do you think about this whole situation?
thanx for reading!
Most Helpful Guy
kinda funny,btw I'm not gay I'm just here to prove that girls deep inside are all lesbians lol! I mean falling 4 gay is like falling 4 a girl! no offense!
_now let me answer ur questions my dear:
1.i think you should find out if he's really gay,or it's just a reputation\rumors guys made to lessen the competition.
2.gay guys were born straight but they chose the other road,so my answer is no,because they tested the both roads and stayed with the fag one.
3-i think he's just being nice,maybe after all he's just doing it 4 the tips LOL.but there is always a possibility.
4-i think this whole situation can be described in one word "IT'S GAY" LOL
let me give you an advice:play a game with one of ur male friends,and when he loses dare him to go and hit on ur gay\crush. I think u'll get some answers after that without embarrassing yourself.
good luck dear!please rate me high,cos I think gays won't go easy on me! ;-)0