OK, so within the past 20 years (going to become 30 years old in 2012) I'm officially giving up on love altogether. I don't find myself unattractive though I know I have some ways of improvement (losing weight / building muscle) yet I find myself a 7 or maybe a 8... However, while in my childhood I've always be made fun of being born with a slight big head (which is mostly seen on the size not face to face)... Black kid's made fun of me the most which I hate till this day... I'm not a person that will ever disrespect women though if I'm going to be ignored or treated like a joke for the rest of my life to hell with love and women altogether... Maybe like Jay-Z I will place my heart on making money until I'm successfully rich like Jay-Z, Eminem or even Bill Gates.. Shoot if god didn't want me to be in life for the rest my life Ah-well... OK, so with that being said what do you think I should do for a person whom had never had the chance to date, make love or even get a girl to like him for over 30 years... Also, what grade would you give me from 1 - 10 with 10 being great...
I feel sorry that you've gotten to the place you are at. If you would like to focus on money alone then more power to you. If however you do want to find love and have a chance at it, please please don't follow any guys' advice about becoming a jerk and treating women bad. That doesn't work either and they know it, they're just too bitter to say so.
I have to ask a few questions though to move forward: Have you ever been on a date? Have you ever had a girlfriend? Are you a virgin? Do you get out much? Do you approach/ask out women or do you wait for them to come to you? Is there a certain point where dating seems to go wrong for you? (Like, the approaching stage, the phone number stage, the first date stage, etc.) Do you exercise? And have you tried online dating?
without the glasses you are fiiine boy. get some confidence babe and just walk like you own it. girls like a man who seems in control and can own the room when he walks into it, trust me, face or body are insignificant... its how you walk and talk and act... also wearing a suit helps, men in suits are attractive, not to get all barney stinson on yo ass
You were made fun of mostly by black kids...is that because you grew up in a predominatly black area? If that is the case, then I would suppose that is the reason why that racial background made fun of you mostly.
We all have imperfections, which remain mostly visible to us if we dwell on them. Love yourself. "Love your flaws because they are what make you perfect."
Doing great with the ladies isn't something that is solely based on looks. I've seen unattractive people with partners, left and right like there is no tomorrow.
Your time will come to be in a relationship...you just have to keep putting yourself out there
and remain patient. I know waiting will seem like forever, but trust me that day will come.
Just take all those negative ways you feel about yourself and use them towards positive energy.
You've hit rock bottom. This is great. I used to be utterly respectful to women until I hit rock bottom and realized there's a reason most guys treat women so badly. If you can combine the two you've made yourself a catch, but it's very tricky. Try being an a**hole. See the other side of it. Eventually you'll find a middle ground.
Point is, a change needs to happen. Maybe you need to give up on love, or maybe you need to give up on yourself.