im a girl aand I'm kinda scene/emo. I have a boyfriend, but I always dress differentley when I know I'm going to see him. Are guys atracted to girls like me as much as other girls? Guys to answer, but girls are welcome to.
If you're changing the way you dress when you know you're going to see someone, then it seems to me either you're not comfortable with who you are. That's going to tank the relationship in the end anyway. Just be yourself whichever "you" that is. If you don't know yet, then just hang out and wait. It'll probably save you a lot of trouble in the end.