or do you actually comment on her weight, in your head obviously :o
theres always that one guy that always look back at a pretty girl. do you think that guy even saw me behind her? haha
yes it depends on what you like...but I'm not talking about what you find attractive. I want to know if you see her, or comment on her.
im chubby and people love me. some call me average, while others call me fat. even said theyll be sad if I lost weight cause I won't be as comfty :/ but theyre my friends so I don't mind. I would be upset if some stranger was calling me fat.
Why would you be upset if some stranger was calling you fat? You'll likely never see them again. You don't know them. They mean nothing in your life. It doesn't matter what they think... That said, I notice everyone around me to an extent so that I'm aware of my surroundings but I don't think twice about them or judge them. At most its, girl behind me, guy to left, girl walking towards me, so on and so forth. If someone catches my eye as possibly interesting I might think more about it and go talk to them.
honestly I do see her, and I can't stop thinking how great she would look if she did something about her overweight. please do some exercise, this will improve your confidence. there are no ugly girls, just very lazy ones.
First off, this is for chubby people, not obese people right? Because let's be real here, you're going to notice an obese person's weight. I think I judge girls all the same way. Honestly, when I look at someone, it's more about the face than the body. If she's a pretty girl, she's a pretty girl, regardless of her body weight. It's only when the chubbiness/fat interferes with her beauty that would make me even think of her as something different.
i would say she is beautiful and she knows it especially if you are walking with that swag. many thick girls are beautiful and presentable so do you, keep your beautiful personality. I see too many women who get really thin and it may or may not look nice on them but their attitude stinks miles away.
I pity her because her weight most likely may affect her in some frustrating ways. Such as maintaining true confidence, being able to fit into certain clothes, and having a chance with a wonderful guy who just needs to grow out of superficiality (he may overlook her because she's chubby).
Maybe try to get a job at a fitness center where you can get a free membership?