OK so I turned 18 in the summer. That's all well and good but I look like I am no older than 15, 16 max. This was no trouble really when I was at school. But now that I am at College it is REALLY bothering me. Nobody takes me seriously and girls just completely ignore me. People tell me 'Oh it will be a blessing in years to come' but that's crap. I'm not depressed in the future I am depressed now.
It's so confidence dashing and I just feel so so so out of place. I have even considered, taking my own life the past few weeks. I go out every week with my friends but it just isn't the same when you are being looked at as if you don't belong there. I'm 5'6 and I would consider myself, that bad looking looks wise. And when I see the nicest of girls going of with the biggest jerks and completely ignoring me all because I look younger than them, It is just so hard. I have tried so so hard to brush it off and even trying to use it to my advantage and It's just to no avail.
Does anyone, please any one have any advice as to what to do here? I just feel like it just isn't worth it anymore.
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Okay so! You need to project confidence, work what cha got! When a person walks into a room, you can sense their energy. Also your body language as well. If you send off signals that you think you look like a 15 year old and that you feel left out etc women take all that in. We observe very well lol. Now women have this thing about going out with total jerks. For reasons unknown lol. Some think they can fix them or any of their own personal reasons. You have to put yourself out there. The jerk guys that I know are exploding with confidence it's almost sick ha ha and women love a guy who can take control or who is putting himself out there. Also keep in mind that a lot of women think men should do all the work, so they may not tell you they like you. They could be waiting for you to make the first move.
I dated the cuttttteeesssttt guy, he had a younger face like how you do people called him baby face or doll face ha ha but it didn't bother me at all.I didn't even think twice. All I knew was that he was cute and a great guy and that was good enough for me. Not every girl is superficial! For me it takes more than looks to make me like a guy. When you let your personality shine you become the whole package. There is more to you than looking young. Hold your head up high and get out there!0
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