There's no humble way to ask this question but I'm curious. I find that people assume I am conceited because I'm attractive and carry myself confidently. I used to be timid. I thought being more outgoing would attract more people to me but I still get the cold shoulder and so do other good looking people I know. I'm NOT intimidating but people seem to look at me and assume that. I AM friendly, but I seem to make people nervous. As I said, there's no humble way to say something like this, but I want to know if anyone else experiences anything like it and if it makes you more self conscious as a result.
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Men are stupid like that, no... People are stupid like that. In a world where beauty is a most-valued product, we tend to overprice it a LOT. Men think that they are too ugly/stupid/out of your league, women just envy you. I have a similar problem, as a pretty attractive male I used to be passed along as something unachievable by girls, which is not true, I really don't care that much about looks, also guys envied me, because I had incredibly cute girlfriends( not a single normal looking girl ever talked to me, I was stuck with stupid, brainded, but pretty women) and on top of that their own girlfriends used to talk about me being "hot".
My advice: Just walk to a group of people and show them you true self, try opening with a dirty joke of some sort ( but let it be funny). And do not let your confidence show too much when you are talking to people or the guy/girl you like, might scare them away.1