Have any of you noticed how approachable you became after gaining weight? Whereas he more in shape you get or the thinner you become, it seems as though you become intimidating to people or just unapproachable?
Anybody notice this?
I used to be attractive ( 2 years ago :( )and 20 lbs lighter and it seemed as though guys acted less comfortable around me and not many people were comfortable with asking me for directions on the street ... I noticed though how the quality of the people who I attracted increased as I got thinner.
I could see it being possible, definitely. People may view you as stuck up and not approachable when thin. I always feel like when my hair isn't done and I have no makeup on, I get the most stares and most guys approaching me.