I have a very beautiful face, but I am fat. This one girl I know is uglier than sin, and she got the guy. And she isn't really thin either. Like she isn't fat, but she isn't extremely skinny. And she is really quiet and shy.
I am losing weight, I've lost 40 pounds so far, and I have another 50 to go. So maybe someday I will win him instead.
I just don't think it's fair that an ugly shy girl won the guy over me. I'd get it she had a personality, but she doesn't.
Depends on the guy. Some guys say they care mainly about face. Personally, from a physical standpoint, I care more about body. Significant overweight would be a deal breaker for me - I'm just not sexually attracted to someone who is very overweight, and I would have no interest in being in a relationship with someone I wasn't attracted to on some level.
Forget about 'him'. Keep losing weight, you're doing awesome. There will be other guys.
Maybe it's not even your body that mattered in this case. Maybe he just liked her better for some reason. Seriously, the reasons could be numerous, and there is no way I could figure out whether he chose her for her body, her personality, her smile, her voice, her charm, seriously, I haven't a clue. I cannot have a clue.
But it's not necessarily just the physical aspect that counts. Some people actually find introverted girls more attractive. Some don't. It's really hard to tell.
It's important not to be bitter about it. It's that kind of stuff that makes you unappealing. You are working towards where you want to be and that's a good attitude. I think men have their own opinions about what they from women. You will find men who would easily choose you over your friend and visa versa. In this case, the guy you were interested was more interested in your friend than you, the next guy may prefer you, people are like that.
If you're that fat yes it's going to hurt your chances with guys as well as with people in general. Fat people are thought of as lazy, unhealthy (this becomes true the longer you are fat), and unattractive in body shape.
It's good you lost the weight, I've been dropping weight myself and I feel a lot better. Keep at it.
Being fat is bad enough, being a fat girl is horrible. Good luck