She thinks she's healthy but overweight..
I think she looks great..
But she wouldn't believe me when I told her she was beautiful.. She told she wasn't..
Today I even went out of my comfort zone and told her she's got a great body.. And she was sexy.. didn't work.. She told me she wasn't..
What can I do or say?
Or should I just keep saying she's beautiful to me?
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In my experience, a girl will never admit she is pretty unless she is vain, or unless she is comparing herself to another girl (aka, "oh I'm prettier than her!")
There isn't really anything you can do or say...it's up to her to make her decision about herself, it's free will. All I can say, is by showing her and keeping on saying it it will make her feel special and pretty even if she won't admit it.
What I mean by showing her is if she buys a new top or she comes over and she looks gorgeous say why! My ex used to go "omg! You look amazing! Look at the size of your waist! It's tiny!" and would then grab my waist and kiss it. I'm no slim chicken, but it made me feel sexy when he did it - it was more than words, he was so attracted to it he was willing to touch and kiss it. Does that make sense...?
Best of luck!1