I'm ugly and I want to be pretty. I never get checked out or even a 2nd look. Cute guys never talk to me, they even avoid me, and the only time I get hit on by anyone ever is when the guy is desperate. I used to be called ugly when I was younger but now people don't say anything about me. I know they think it though. I look *okay* when I spend hours getting ready for a formal event but I obviously can't do that every day. When I look normal I look rough. So you can see what my problem is! I was hoping you guys could give me ideas on how I can improve my looks so I can be beautiful once and for all. Be very honest with me because I can't improve if I don't know the truth.
I just wear eye shadow, eye liner and mascara occasionally on special occassions. For everyday I wear mascara and eye liner and lipbalm. I don't know how to apply anything else so I don't wear foundation, concealer, blush, bronzer or things like that.
I have a dark brown eyes and hair and deep tan skin (Halle Berry in the summer, JLo in the winter)
The negatives I know I have is that I'm fat. I can change this through exercise and eating better. I go to school full time and work 2 jobs so it's hard for me to eat good food, it's so easy to get something fast.
I'm also tall. I don't know if this is a bad thing but it seems guys like short girls more.
I have frizzy dark brown hair that is hard to manage (my grandparents are black and have very coarse hair)
The positives are I gain most of my weight in my boobs and butt so I always look like an hourglass, I don't look as ugly when I wear makeup. So I guess that means my face isn't what makes or breaks me.
I have good clear skin- no blemishes or acne. The occasional pimple but nothing severe.
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Obviously you know you can get into shape so join a sport or take some dance classes! a lot of gyms are 24 hours so even if its 15 minutes ever other day, do it!
Besides your weight, it's all about how you carry yourself and put yourself together. I know plenty of bigger and taller girls that are in great relationships and also plenty of gorgeous girls that never can get a guy. Be confident in the way you stand and walk. When you talk to someone, say things confidently.
Your skin tone is what most people want so use that to your advantage! There are plenty of makeup and hair tutorials on Youtube and if you need more help there are plenty of department stores and salons that can teach you how to put on simple everyday makeup.
Definitely dress well, you can find cheap, name brand clothes at resale shops and places like TJ Max and Marshall's so that you can dress to impress everyday!1