I know that men are visual and fulfilling their needs is one of the most important thing in a relationship. But my boyfriend is often suggesting things he would like me to change about myself. This distresses me some, because I don't know where it will stop.
BUT, I also know that he is probably just being honest and that all guys would prefer their girlfriend to be as close to their physical ideal as possible. I also don't want to date someone I'm un-attracted to, so I'm shallow too.
So I don't know if I should just do what he says or if I chalk it up to us not being compatible...
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First of all, think about if he is telling you to make theses changes for you. If you feel like you would like these changes then sure, why not?
Of course that also depends on how big the changes are, like a hair color change might be okay because it is temporary. But things like implants might require more thought. Also if he wants these changes purely for his desires and nothing more then it might not be such a great idea.
There is also the argument that no one should ever have to change themselves.
Honestly, I'm a guy so the most change I ever get is a haircut so I don't know what to tell you.
I hope some of that helped. :)0