Robert Heinlein is a famous science fiction author who had a recurring character, Lazarus Long. He was Heinlein's alter ego and had some interesting sayings that were even collected into a book of its own. One was something like: the perfect lady is the absolute picture of propriety in public but can check that propriety at the bedroom door, enter, and do her whorish best.
Classy is usually best in public unless you're out of town on a getaway, then you can be that other woman. You see it all the time in places like Las Vegas and Atlantic City. But in private, the sluttier and trashier the better, pretty much.
Classy by far... Dressing slutty may be "hot" in the immediate sense, but a woman will always be objectified, rather than respected for who she is, if she presents herself in that way. It doesn't matter how good looking she is... Just the way it goes.
Now a beautiful woman that knows how to dress and present herself? She will be much more likely to attract the kind of attention she's looking for... She can still flaunt what she has, but it must be done in a more modest fashion. That is true sex-appeal if you ask me.
i think they should wear what they want,if they're slutty-let them be slutty. my preference for myself is ''classy'' (not classy,but covered up) because I feel more comfortable that way. also,about what the anon girl said-f*** her. if you want to get a man,do what you can to get him, we've all seen sex & the city,women over 25 need love too,youth is overrated.