My guy really wants to tell me how I should look, what I should do with my hair/weight/appearance. He's a nice guy and I understand that guys are primarily into relationships for visual/sexual reasons. I resent being told what to do, but then I also realize that most guys would just go sleep with someone else and he's probably just trying to make sure he stays attracted to me. I don't know what to do -- should I just do whatever he asks?
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He's not a nice guy. If he didn't like how you looked then he shouldn't have started dating u. you don't begin dating a girl you aren't attracted to and try to mold her into your perfect idea like she's a doll instead of a human with real feelings and emotions. You should get a backbone and tell this MF where he can go and dump him. I'm sure he's not perfect either, is he a male model? I bet there are things you could nitpick about him but you dont, so why can't he give you the same consideration? there are other guys you could be dating. if he isn't appreciating you then show him the door. and if you're gonna keep making excuses for his behavior instead of seeing him for what he really is then get used to feeling like crap its only gonna get worse from here0