By finding value inn yourself in whatever state your in. So initial self-confidence.
If you wanna be societies definition of beautiful, your going to have to lose weight. Wear make up. Straighten your teeth or get them whiten. Make your hair look cool somehow (curl it, crimp it, or straighten it, just style it). Wear nice clothes. Make your nails look nice. Have a cool personality. Stop complaining about how you look and stop showing people your insecurities.
umm if your not happy with your weight.. start an exercising routine to get in shape.. get a nice hair cut that looks good on u.. get some clothes you feel good in and show of your curves... find positive things about yourself and keep saying them to you overtime you will believe them.. umm ya stuff like that :) hope I helped hun.
You are beautifuol if you believe you're beautiful. Confidence is the most attractive quality. Honestly, all men have differen taste, & for every guy who doesn't find you attractive, there is 3 other guys who do find you attractive.
first off you already are! second get in shape I'm serious I did a few years ago and best thing I ever did I'm more confident, attractive, and I actually enjoy shopping like alot! but a little make up (A LITTLE possibly get it professionally done once to see what you need to do), new hair cut, and new wardrobe. confidence= beautiful. and a little touch of lipstick never hurt no one :)
Lose some weight, get braces, learn how to put on makeup, and do something with your hair.