People ask questions on here all the time about this guy/girl that always stares at me-does she like me etc etc, and most people answer yes, of course they like you and they want you to approach them/they want to approach you.
But then if you ask- this person always stares at me but they have a boyfriend/girlfriend most people answer saying they're just looking/appreciating your beauty and it doesn't mean anything.
That right there confuses the hell out of me. How can the 2 same things (extended eye contact) mean 2 totally different things depending on if they already have a gf/bf?
Surely, extended eye contact means there's something there-whether one person has a boyfriend/girlfriend or not?
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Well that is the thing about US strangers GUESSING other peoples mindset.
Most of the time extended eye contact simply means a person is interested in another person. In what way that interest is directed - we can't tell just by that. That's the think we guess around the stuff the questioner tells us about his/her surroundings and the other persons actions, etc.
It's just human nature to be interested in others. However interest isn't always a good thing, like the person can think of "man, how ugly she is", too.
eye contact (extended) -> interest
all other guesses are based on assumptions we do by the stuff a questioner tells about this other person
I hope this answer goes into the direction you want it to be, if not I might have totally misinterpreted it, then I'm sorry ;)2
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