All my life I had been fat and constantly ignored. I was very shy and didn't talk to girls but didn't matter since they didn't like me anyway. Well in high school I lost a bunch of weight and bought new clothes now it seems every girl I like likes me back . Me being shy I never approach them and by doing that everyone calls me homo(g.a.y) . I'm constantly being judged on everything about me. MY friends,the way I walk, my shyness,the way I hold my bookbag,if I didn't get a haircut if I start braking out , or even if I put 5 pounds over holidays everyone notices the slightest things about me . does anyone else have this pain?
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I understand. Everyone expects me to be that perfect cheerleader. But no one is perfect. We get acne, we gain a little weight at times, we have bad days, we don't always talk to rveryone. That's how humans are. I feel like people expecte to always look perfect.. Hair straight, new clothes, makeup on. But that isn't me. Just because I'm a cheerleader doesn't mean I like dressing up, hanging out with the "popular" girls, or wearing makeup. If you love yourself then that is all that matters. Accept who you are and people will start to accept you. You'll find that girl who loves your shy personality. Not everyone is outgoing and talkative. We're all original and unique.. Ignore what others say and be yourself(:1