I'm sixteen and can't seem to find a guy who likes me for me.
I'm not rude I'm just a very blunt person.
A lot of women would consider me a "rude" girl and they say that's the reason guys don't want to commit to me.
(I personally think that I'm too much of a stand up person and that's why guys won't carry out a relationship with me.)
But that's not true, I'm a virgin , and when most guys learn that they automatically assume I'm innocent.
But reality is I'm not, I am an explicit, strong willed, and independent young adult.
Most guys love the fact that I'm a good girl, but can still manage keep things sexy and a little crazy.
Guys give me compliments all the time on my personality.
So why can't guys see me as more than just a fun time?
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You're strong-willed. There's nothing wrong with that. However, consider the market of guys you're trying to attract. Those men that want to be the leader of the relationship will not be attracted to you. They would rather be the strong-willed and blunt ones.
Try looking for guys who are more insightful or emotional--artists, writers, and musicians. Look for guys who have a better sense of style, are more caring, and thoughtful. I think these types of guys would be a better match for you (and you them).1