What do you guys and girls think of changing yourself to be more attractive? a lot of people argue "The right person will like you for who you are" but how far into changing yourself is "too far that you shouldn't have to do that"?
In my situation I've been talking to this girl who's in a relationship that's kinda "rocky" so to speak. The guy is a total tool and doesn't really treat her right. Anyway my friend asked her if she'd ever be interested in me and she replied with "he'd be more attractive if he wasn't nerdy".
So in the end what do you all think? Are there certain situations where changing yourself to be more attractive is ok? Or should it be like "the right person will like you for who you are"?
- Change yourself to be more attractive, if its not too muchVote A
- Dont change yourself, the right person will like you.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
She'd be more attractive if she was more assertive. If she's with a tool it's because she WANTS to be.
She's not for you. If she's calling you names, then she's not the girl for you.
If you're "nerdy" in your manner of dress, it's okay to suggest that you dress up a bit better, but don't make any major personality changes for anyone. The only thing a "nerd" is ... is an intellectual. Why in the world would you be ashamed of being smart?
Go find a person who loves and appreciates you. She's out there.0