So my friends (who are girls) always tell me I'm 'so pretty' and 'gorgeous', and I have one guy friend, straight, who tells me I'm 'beautiful', 'gorgeous', and 'have a great body', when he hears my mom telling my to watch what I eat, and my ex was always telling me I was 'mad cute'. Of course my family does the whole "you're the prettiest girl in the world' thing too. But those people are obligated to tell me I look good, even if I don't, because why would they hurt my feelings by telling me the truth if I was actually disgusting? It's not like I get guys telling me they like me at my school very often, and a lot of the popular jocks are very insulting, asking me where I buy my tights/ bursting into my conversations with rude comments/giving me weird looks. And I almost never had anyone who liked me in middle/elementary school, so is there some way I can know whether or not I'm ugly, because I can't rely on friends/family, and a mind reading machine hasn't been invented yet (lie detectors don't count!). Thanks!
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You shouldn't be putting yourself down. who cares what the kids say in school. Guys and people will always tease or make fun. Sometimes if a guy makes fun of you or is even insulting with comments they might actually like you. I don't htink you can know whetehr or not your ugly. Everybody is going to give you different opionions based on your looks. Why should you let this define who you are or your personality or character. Be positive and confident and forget about the haters. People will always hate and be rude or mean. That is the way how life is. You have to make yourself happy and you can't worry baout what others say about you.0
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