audrey hepburn is my inspiration, but not as heavy looking as hers. I love her look and I also have the large eyes but mine are more round. I go for a classic look.
i don't wear eyeshadow. then I use a deep brown (basically, blackbrown) eyeliner. I invisibly trace it upward starting at my lower lashline and draw that little upward wing. Then I draw a line 3/4 across my upper lid and connect to the wing. Then I thinly dot liner on my outer lower lashline.
Then I add a nice amount of black mascara to my top lashes.
And a teeny wad of it on the bottom.
Don't have a pic handy, but I think you get the idea.