I feel like guys make inaccurate judgments about girls who show a lot of skin. Such as they are attention seeking and sl*tty.
I'm a dancer and I show skin because it's more comfortable when I'm dancing, especially in the club where I may sweat a lot! I love belly shirts because when I incorporate belly dancing and hip rolling into my dancing, the dance flows better when you can actually see my belly. Plus I don't like belly sweat :/ who does!? lol
What would you think if you saw a girl wearing something like that in the club? Why do people automatically assume it's for attention? I know many ways to get male attention, I dont' have to resort to showing skin.
Also, how do guys feel when their girlfriend or a girl they like can dance like this...
I think it's easy for some guys to assume that because when they're at a club, they're hyped up on sexiness all around them, so they're thinking about sex. That's kind of understandable, but it takes a whole other type of person to act on it, hit on the girl, then get all bent out of shape because, "you're dressed like you want it!"
Let people think what they want. They might figure this simple sh*t out eventually.
Number one you going to a club, so people would see you dance (you want attract peoples GUYS attention to your self). Two, you just said your self, you want people to see your belly when you do your crazy dance. If I was a guy I would judge you the same. You just a show off girl a.k.a skank who is trying to get guys attention. I mean how would you describe otherwise what you do. It is like seeing a super muscular guy with basically no clothe on, on expensive car and assuming right a way he is a player, and he is not.
when I met my girlfriend, which was in a club and I know that apparently "never works out" she was wearing short shorts and just a tight tiny leather vest. she is the complete opposite of slutty. I personally don't look at what a girl wears and think there personality is a certain way, you have to get to know them to figure out wether all they want to do is get it in or want something more. do what you do girl, if you know to yourself your not a slut, dress how you please to make you feel good about yourself and comfy! hope I could help
They are looking for negative attention. Those type of women just want to irritating to me because I like the idea of the present. In other words, she is dress proper. This get my attention in a positive way to pursue her.
not slutty, but a lot of times girls wear clothes that are trashy, or don't fit them. There has been many times where underwear is flashed, or bare butts showing :/ I don't know who in their right mind would go out willingly showing that much skin, so it does seem to be attention seeking.