I have this friend who is gorgeous, seriously she's an easy 9-10, and she is dating an older guy who is a good 15 years older than her. And he is short and unattractive, and she for some reason thinks he's gorgeous.
Why would such an attractive girl date what most people would think is a 2 in terms of looks? (His personality isn't even that great, so don't say it'd hid personality)
Ok, update. He isn't rich by any stretch of the imagination and his attitude sucks
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It might well be his personality. Just because you don't like him doesn't mean she doesn't.
It could be anything.
Maybe he's really funny, maybe he has the same interests as her, maybe he's the only one that had the balls to ask her out, maybe he's really good in bed, maybe he's her type as much as he isn't yours, maybe he is nice wheras guys in the past haven't been, maybe he's rich...
So many potential answers.
People do have different tastes in looks. My old flat mate really had a thing for fat girls who weren't too pretty and were pretty much the opposite of my ideal girl. Lots of people are gay, again something I wouldn't find attractive.
WIth women there seems to be even less consensus on what makes an attractive partner than with men.
Lol the real question is why do YOU give a sh*t. If your friend is happy with him what's your problem? Can't you just be happy for the both of them as a true friend would be? Or do you decide that your shallow views and negative personality are so much more important than two people's happiness. You sound superficial and mean, get a life.