Pictures would help. It kinda depends on the style. Honestly though, the best thing is whichever makes you feel most confident. If you are happy with the way you look, it will reflect in how you compose yourself, and that will attract guys more than your hairstyle.
when your trying to impress someone "look pretty" but once you have made him yours and yall kiss he can put his hands around your neck and fell your soft hair. I put it in quotations because I alway liked soft and frizzy har
Girl, I know how that is. I've tried all sorts of products, so I know exactly what you mean by "crunchy". I'd recommend trying an anti frizz serum. Serums are light and liquid, so upon drying it shouldn't leave your hair crunchy. Use it sparingly though, so your hair may appear a bit greasy. It's the best solution I've been able to find so my hair stays soft, but some what controlled. I also don't know your hair type though. My hair is thick and wavy. If you're hair is anything like that I've give it a try :)