I used to have a friend who weighed between 170 - 190 pounds and she always got the most AMAZING guys to date her... like some of them were studying to be doctors, some of them worked in corporate finance... a lot of the were 6 feet tall or higher, with about 8% body fat or otherwise skinny in some other way, many of them were lawyers etc... and I was always shocked that she was able to get such amazing guys to date her...
I told my friend last week that I volunteered at a party for disabled people and I had 6 guys hit on me in one night and she accused me of lying... like I don't think I'd be able to attract 6 corporate lawyers in one day but these guys are disabled so they are more interested and available than the millionaires or supermodels...
Why did I underestimate my friend whose married to a 6"4 lawyer right now and why did my friend underestimate me?
What do I have that she doesn't realize?
And what did my 190 pound friend have that I didn't realize?
Thanks for answering
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Just like you're only focusing on her weight, she might be focusing on some quality of yours that she thinks is unattractive. Girls need to stop evaluating each other.
Even then, 6 guys in one night would probably cause surprise to anyone, it's probably not that she thinks you couldn't attract guys, it would seem unlikely even if you were insanely attractive.
When you talk about these "amazing guys," is there any reason why their "amazing" qualities are their looks and height?
"my 190 pound friend"
"married to a 6"4 lawyer"
Gee, maybe there's more to it than that, maybe she has an attractive personality.8