I am not really a materialistic person, I just feel better about myself when I dress well. I don't expect the guys I date to be extremely well dressed, but I do expect them to look nice. They don't have to spend a lot of money on clothes as long as they look well put together. And if they need some advice on it, I really wouldn't think anything less of them. I understand that kind of stuff doesn't come naturally to guys.
I sometimes feel like guys are intimidated by me. Is this because I dress well and try to look cute? It's not like I am doing it to make guys look at me, I am doing it to feel good about myself. Does this make sense to guys?
Sometimes I feel like the only guys who approach me are the overly confident douche bags who only want me for sex. In reality, I would prefer a nice, sweet guy. Am I turning them off with the way I dress?
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I want a girl to dress appropriately for the occasion whether it is social between us or business. When I take my assistant and female company controller on a business meeting with me I expect them to not show up in jeans and flip flops even if that is OK in the office most days because I do not make many demands then. If I am taking a girl out to dinner and an opera, I would think she would amp it up. never had to tell a girl that. girls get it. I know when I need to be in jeans and a hard hat and when I need to be in a pinstripe suit. well dressed is what is appropriate for the situation and a girl that gets it every time is so smokin' hot.0