How many men have you approached? How many have you asked out? Do you have hobbies where you meet men? Do you do anything but stay at home, or hang out with a posse of women friends, shopping in women's clothing stores?
Back in the day, all you'd have to do is be pretty, and they'd all come flocking to you. But - I'm sorry to say - age is a factor. And not in the way you might think. I'm not talking about your appearance.
At your age, there are there categories of men. Never-married losers, married guys, and divorced guys. This means that pretty much all the guys your age who are available and who you might be interested in have been through the divorce wringer. Some of them have lost their houses, some of them have had their children legally kidnapped, some of them are paying alimony while the ex has sex with some thug on their dime.
These guys are wary. They are cautious. If you want any sort of relationship with one, you are going to have to *win* one. "If I'm so pretty, where's my man?" just doesn't cut it anymore, babe.
Oh - that's assuming you want a relationship with a worthwhile guy. If you want a player or a thug, then yeah - you are too old. Sorry.
You seem to think you are entitled to male companionship. Maybe you are just not as pretty or great as you have been lead to believe. Do you cook well? Are you clean and neat? Do you give sh*t tests? Do you have a pleasant personality? Are you willing to sacrifice for your man? Are you willing to look for men below your socioeconomic strata? No? Then you had better learn to love cats.
i do not ,i think I am decent at best and I don't really get noticed a lot anymore so it seemed to be the case and if you are overwieght doesn't pretty doesn't count for much (that explain your lack of a man)
awww cute p.s . You are preobably pretty if a lot of women say so. Being a little heavy will not make you less than pretty. Some guys like different body shapes and sizes so keep positive and you will be fine.