Guys, would you date a girl 5'2 160 pounds?

I am 5'2 160 pounds, 20 years old. I consider myself pretty yet I am definitely overweight, however it is in my hips and butt, my waist is very small. Do guys see my weight as a complete turnoff? When they see me do they see me as the fat girl in the room even if I am dressed nicely and having fun? I am dealing with an eating disorder at this point in my life while in college so it definitely makes it a little harder for me to lose the weight, although I try desperately. I would like to find a relationship with someone right now but I would never want to embarrass the person I was with with my weight or make try to have someone be with me if there is no physical attraction. Thoughts?


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  • I would have to see a picture to say for sure but if a guy likes a girl with a big booty than I'm sure he'll like you. I'm 5'1 and 165lb 27 years old (going to try to loose 20lb over summer) most of my weight is because I have a wide build I think it's called stocky frame and the rest is mainly in my gut.

    I looked it up and for people our height we need to be 137lbs to be perfect but I've Never been under 145 sense I was like 14, so based on that you are not that bad. To me a girl that's a little over weight can look quite sexy depending on how she wears her curves.

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What Guys Said 6

  • weight is an important aspect for me when it comes to being attractive or not. However, I don't regard it as there being a certain 'number' for an unnatractive weight, it all depends on the person, their bone density and how their body distributes the fat

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  • Everybody is beautiful inside and outside.

    It just takes the right person to see it.

    One day your prince or princess will turn up.

    Just be happy, and wait. Okay? :)

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  • sorry to say it but I do find it a turnoff if someone is overweight
    its partially because I want a girl whos active not just due to looks

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  • in my opinion yes, and you said it is in your hips and butt so to me it sounds like you are thick as hell. but since I love a girl with thick thighs and a big butt, that might explain it to.lol

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  • You can't really control your weight problems is what I'm hearing? You can either try working on that or hope some random guy comes out of the blue.

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  • LOL post a pic, that would be a lot easier.

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What Girls Said 3

  • OMG YOU ARE ME. Seriously. Add me so I can talk with you :D

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  • I am the same size as you are, and I am married. At my size, I wear a woman's size 8/10, I have never had any trouble getting dates. If you are pretty and curvaceous guys are going to want to date you, end of story. Yes, you are slightly overweight, but so what. They have done studies on this and men don't really care about weight (up to a point) if you have an hourglass figure. It sounds like you are plump in the right places. So am I. Be proud of your sexy, womanly figure! Play it up with heels, scoop necks, V-necks, tube skirts, etc. You're a bombshell like Marilyn Monroe. Own it. Work it.

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  • Ive had the same thing all my life and it sucks I'm sorry you will find a great guy.

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