I know it probably sounds stupid but I really wish I could find a guy who loves me for how I look, not for my personality. Growing up I was never the pretty girl and was awkward for a solid decade of my life and it really took a toll on my self image. Now, I know I look different but I'm still not at level I'd like to look. My boyfriend says he loves me for me and can't understand why that isn't good enough. I just feel like he loves my personality and not what I look like, and my main goal in life is to just finally be considered "hot." Is that so wrong?
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First of all, let me tell you how lucky you are to find a guy who loves you for YOU. That's rare. Second of all, who says you aren't pretty? There is no such thing as an 'ugly' girl. If you change up hairstyles, wear make up, smell pretty and dress feminine...then YOU ARE PRETTY,no matter how your body or face may look like. The way I see it is, if you take the time to invest on your looks than more than likely you are attractive. As for wanting to be 'hot', beauty takes on different shapes...it all means something different for everybody. Just like you have tastes and preferences, guys have them too. One guy might consider you cute, but the next guy might more than likely find you gorgeous. I think sexy is a state of mind, not something you can wear. Its something that permeates from within and tell not only guys, but people that you are comfortable in your own skin...now THAT is hot. Just ask any guy.