we were just talking and I ask him about the other people he has has sex with. he said his girlfriend was "Hot, no actually she's cute" he said, and I asked him about another girl he slept with. I was like was she hot? he said yeah. then I'm like what about me? he answered super fast and was like your your cute.
does cute mean I'm not good looking? that's what I'm thinking. what's the difference? and what's better?
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Don't be too offended, guys usually use "cute" to describe someone they consider relationship material. Hot is a term that we usually use for women that we just feel a stirring in our pants for. I can't remember the last time I called my girlfriend hot, although I think she is. I usually use words like "beautiful" or "cute" when referring to her.
I should probably call her hot a little more than I do, might boost her sexual self-esteem.3